On Aug 5, 2024, David Dalton wrote
(in article<0001HW.2C61C17D0073287D70001033938F@news.eternal-september.org>):
> This post uses terminology from my Eight Sexual Harmonics
> matchmaking theory, which is summarized on
> https://www.nfld.com/~dalton/8H.html .
>
> I theorize that optimal sexual compatible relationships
> result in longest lifespan and physical and mental health
> healing effects, and that deceptive incompatible relationships
> result in the shortest lifespan for the one who is deceived.
>
> That assumes no persecution and no risky behaviour
> for same gender relationships.
>
> Also note that I define bim as male attracted to both
> genders and bif as female attracted to both genders,
> not necessarily having sex with both genders.
> Many of these are straight by lifestyle choice, but I
> do not call those straight-type-3. The proportion
> of bims and bifs in the population is far higher than
> is reported in surveys.
>
> With that in mind, the optimal sexually compatible
> relationships are:
>
> straight-type-1-M--straight-type-1-F
> straight-type-2-M--bif
> straight-type-2-F--bim
> (all of those lock for life)
> gay--gay
> gay--bim
> bim--bim
> lesbian--lesbian
> lesbian--bif
> bif--bif
> (those don’t lock for life)
>
> I define partially compatible as compatible, but less than
> optimally sexually compatible and less likely to stick and
> less likely to be faithful than the above-listed opposite
> gender relationships. These are:
>
> straight-type-1-M--bif
> straight-type-1-F--bim
> bim--bif (who often go bye bye)
>
> and would have shorter lifespan than optimally sexually
> compatible relationships.
>
> Some with similar lifespans to the partially compatible are:
>
> celibates/single people
> platonic gay--lesbian relatiionships (which can be bridged by a bim--bif
> couple)
> platonic straight-type-2-M--lesbian relationships (which can be bridged by a
> bif)
> platonic straight-type-2-F--gay relationships (which can be bridged by a
> bim).
>
> I think that straight-type-2-M--straight-type-2-F is highly unlikely to
> occur.
>
> Finally the deceptive incompatible relationships:
>
> straight-type-1-M--lesbian
> bim--lesbian
> straight-type-1-F--gay
> bif--gay
>
> for which there is a black widow/er effect in which the one who is
> deceived (the ones on the left) suffers adverse mental and physical
> health effects and shorter lifespans. I believe that a substantial
> percentage of cancer cases are due to this effect, though earlier
> in the relationship mental health effects may be more noticeable.
> Also the effect may be more pronounced if the deceiver commits
> the negative magick of thinking of someone of the same gender
> as them who is not there, while having sex with their partner.
> This might be more common amongst gay deceivers since they
> would probably need to do that to maintain an erection.
>
> Anyway, the above is still just a theory, though I have confirmed
> it for several cases using my matchmaking ability, including
> two cancer deaths in my close and extended family. So anyway
> I think it is worthy of research, say by seeing what percentage of
> women with breast cancer have a gay husband, or if any came
> out as gay after their wife died of cancer. And surely if a
> deceiver realized the negative effects they would break up
> the relationship, if they truly care for their partner.
>
> One famous example is gay Antonio Guterres, whose first
> wife died young, but he is optimally sexually compatible with
> his current wife, who is bimT (spiritually bim in female form).
> That might lead Antonio to erroneously think he is bim
> if he doesn’t know that his wife is a trans man.
I neglected to discuss straight-type-1 relationships
with straight-type-2. Those can occur but they are
incompatible (the straight-type-1 has one-way attraction
to the straight-type-2) and they are generally not
long lasting. As for health benefits, like the
partially compatible ones there are no health and
lifespan extension benefits but there are also no
detriments.
--
David Dalton dalton@nfld.com https://www.nfld.com/~dalton (home page)
https://www.nfld.com/~dalton/dtales.html Salmon on the Thorns (mystic page)
“And the cart is on a wheel; And the wheel is on a hill; And the
hill is shifting sand; And inside these laws we stand" (Ferron)
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